Tag Archives: ignorance

Feels Like The First Time.

Of course that is a title of a great Foreigner song and it’s what Madonna describes within the context of Like A Virgin. But this has nothing to do with either of those songs or topics. I attended my first … Continue reading

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Everybody Knows

Everybody Knows.  Besides being one hell of a song by Mr. Leonard Cohen, this is basically how I live my life.  I live it as if everybody knows. Before transitioning, I just figured any time I was presenting as Jen, … Continue reading

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Blood is thicker than water, especially tears

I found out, a few weeks ago, that all of the aunts and uncles on my dads side of the family know.  I heard this from my cousin on that side who already knew.  The news went from a cousin … Continue reading

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The Difference In How We Are Treated

This isn’t an entry on how differently Trans people are treated, but rather, how we are treated differently based on how we are perceived. As soon as we’re born, we are labeled.  Boy or Girl.  As soon as we’re born, … Continue reading

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A Matter Of Public Record

I am out.  I’m not far out, or way out, but I’m out.  I’m not out to everyone, but can be seen by anyone.  This can create a fine line separating me form the destructive fall to the rocks below. … Continue reading

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When the baby tomato fell behind, the papa tomato…… Part One

The Papa tomato squashed him and said, “Ketchup”. That is what I am here to do.  Play catch-up.  Some pretty amazing things have gone on and it is far past time to share. I will start off with the least … Continue reading

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Down a percentage, but for how long?

Today I began my temporary seasonal position at Target. The up side is, there will now be a little more money coming in (as opposed to none).  The down side, my rate of living as I am meant to be … Continue reading

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