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The Difference In How We Are Treated

This isn’t an entry on how differently Trans people are treated, but rather, how we are treated differently based on how we are perceived. As soon as we’re born, we are labeled.  Boy or Girl.  As soon as we’re born, … Continue reading

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A Matter Of Public Record

I am out.  I’m not far out, or way out, but I’m out.  I’m not out to everyone, but can be seen by anyone.  This can create a fine line separating me form the destructive fall to the rocks below. … Continue reading

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Ketchup Part Two

With the Wonder Woman costume and Halloween behind me, it was time to move forward. I have blogged and posted multiple times about finding the right time to tell me best male friend about my life.  He has known me … Continue reading

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When the baby tomato fell behind, the papa tomato…… Part One

The Papa tomato squashed him and said, “Ketchup”. That is what I am here to do.  Play catch-up.  Some pretty amazing things have gone on and it is far past time to share. I will start off with the least … Continue reading

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Down a percentage, but for how long?

Today I began my temporary seasonal position at Target. The up side is, there will now be a little more money coming in (as opposed to none).  The down side, my rate of living as I am meant to be … Continue reading

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Who has it easier, really, when it comes to transitioning?

Battle lines have been drawn. Sides have been taken. Theories have been stated. I have heard, from different sources, that F2M transitioning is easier than M2F.  I’m not sure I buy into that, totally. At some points I feel that … Continue reading

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With each telling, a weight is lifted

I have known this over the course of my life, but have not felt it this strongly until recently. With each person I tell, I feel the weight of the life lie, lifted.  Eased.  Relieved. I have been going out … Continue reading

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