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Feels Like The First Time.

Of course that is a title of a great Foreigner song and it’s what Madonna describes within the context of Like A Virgin. But this has nothing to do with either of those songs or topics. I attended my first … Continue reading

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Blood is thicker than water, especially tears

I found out, a few weeks ago, that all of the aunts and uncles on my dads side of the family know.  I heard this from my cousin on that side who already knew.  The news went from a cousin … Continue reading

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The Difference In How We Are Treated

This isn’t an entry on how differently Trans people are treated, but rather, how we are treated differently based on how we are perceived. As soon as we’re born, we are labeled.  Boy or Girl.  As soon as we’re born, … Continue reading

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A Matter Of Public Record

I am out.  I’m not far out, or way out, but I’m out.  I’m not out to everyone, but can be seen by anyone.  This can create a fine line separating me form the destructive fall to the rocks below. … Continue reading

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Ketchup Part Two

With the Wonder Woman costume and Halloween behind me, it was time to move forward. I have blogged and posted multiple times about finding the right time to tell me best male friend about my life.  He has known me … Continue reading

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Who has it easier, really, when it comes to transitioning?

Battle lines have been drawn. Sides have been taken. Theories have been stated. I have heard, from different sources, that F2M transitioning is easier than M2F.  I’m not sure I buy into that, totally. At some points I feel that … Continue reading

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With each telling, a weight is lifted

I have known this over the course of my life, but have not felt it this strongly until recently. With each person I tell, I feel the weight of the life lie, lifted.  Eased.  Relieved. I have been going out … Continue reading

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